This time last year, I posted the following quote on my facebook wall:
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It was just before I departed Australia, having resigned from my job, and having sold my apartment. I was about to embark upon a dream to return to Paris – and live off my life savings to do so!
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was a leap of faith. I knew only one person, and had no idea what would unfold. All I did know was that it was time for a change. In my career, and in my general direction in life. It just felt right.
And I am a big believer in trusting your intuition.
Over the past decade, I have tried to become more aware of my thoughts; behaviours; attitudes; and my motivation for decisions I make in my life.
And in the past, when I have made major life decisions and changes – such as relocating overseas, and moving cities within Australia – I have felt it. Whilst it may be intangible to others, I truly believe that within ourselves, we “know” what is right for us.
The problem is, we often let our head get in the way.
We tend to discuss, analyse, and generally over-think our situations. Which often leads to fear and doubt seeping in…..invariably causing us to opt to remain in our comfort zone – the safety of what we know – even though we may be unhappy.
“Every right decision I’ve made—every right decision I’ve ever made—has come from my gut. And every wrong decision I’ve ever made was a result of me not listening to the greater voice of myself. If it doesn’t feel right, don’t do it. That’s the lesson. And that lesson alone will save you, my friends, a lot of grief.”
Oprah Winfrey
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So I was determined not to look back on my life with regret. To know I had the courage to change my circumstances when I was not satisfied and fulfilled. After all, what’s the worst that could happen?
And how often am I grateful I did? Every day!
Mark Twain quote
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I have travelled to over 50 countries, but have always felt a strong affinity for Paris. At school, I had dreamt of one day travelling to France, of speaking the language, and experiencing life here. I spent six weeks in France back in 2001, and of all the destinations I have since visited, I just knew that Paris was the right place for me to return to at this time in my life.
So today marks the one year anniversary of my arrival. Of starting anew – developing new friendships and networks, learning a new language, and growing accustomed to the cultural differences and nuances as I gradually assimilate into life here.
My focus has been on myself this past year. On rebuilding my energy and inspiration, and in developing greater clarity on where I am actually headed. It’s such a great gift to be able to spend quality time on yourself in this way!
So I have spent countless hours reading inspiring books; undertaking courses and programs; listening to audios and watching webinars about mindset, belief, positive thinking, Law of Attraction, and wellness; taking French classes; and snapping lots of photos.
And I have also spent time on consciously and clearly laying out my goals. Although this is still a work in progress, I firmly believe the adage:
How do you know what you’re aiming for, if you haven’t clearly defined your target?
Many people drift along year after year, feeling somewhat discontent, but not really knowing what it is that they want. Our lives are busy, and full of distractions. But what is more important than investing in yourself, and determining what exactly YOU want out of YOUR life? As the late, great Steve Jobs said:
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(And by the way, if you’ve never seen his Stanford University address [2005] – where this quote originates from – then click here. It remains one of the most inspiring speeches I have ever heard.)
I still feel I have so much to read, learn, and discover. I just love learning and growing every day, as I gain new insights and realisations, and increase my self-awareness. And it makes me realise how much I really don’t know, and still have to learn!
How long will I remain in Paris? I don’t know. But I do know I’m in the right place for me, right now. And that I feel much happier; more content; positive; inspired, and excited about life as a result of making this change.
So I am in the process of renewing my visa for another year. After that, I’ll reassess, and see what feels right.
I have so many things I still wish to achieve, so it certainly is a work in progress. But as a close friend remarked to me yesterday: “You are certainly looking at the next year through a different lens to last year!” And I am excited about the ongoing journey.
Follow Your Dream!!! 🙂
365 days, 52 weeks, 8,760 hours, 525,600 minutes, 31,536,000 seconds……

C’est moi! Brick Lane, London
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“Paris is a place in which we can forget ourselves, reinvent, expunge the dead weight of our past.”
Michael Simkins
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“A walk about Paris will provide lessons in history, beauty, and in the point of Life.”
Thomas Jefferson
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Postscript…..
Quotes
There are many quotes that I have been inspired by. The two stand-outs would have to be:
“Go confidently in the direction of your dreams. Live the life you’ve imagined.”
Henry David Thoreau
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“Twenty years from now, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did. So throw off the bowlines, sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”
Mark Twain
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Photos
This is a tough one – almost like asking a parent to choose their favourite child! 😉 I have thousands of photos, many remain as yet unsorted. So, after much deliberation, I have selected a handful of my favourites:
Sparking lights, Eiffel Tower
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The Seine and Musee d’Orsay
Clockface, Musee d’Orsay
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From under the bridge, Eiffel Tower
Trocadero, Views to the Eiffel Tower
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Sunset, Eiffel Tower
Sunset, Place de la Concorde
Sunset, Pont Alexandre III
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Nightfall, the Louvre
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Parc Floral, Bois de Vincennes
Parc Floral, Bois de Vincennes
Parc Floral, Bois de Vincennes
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Sunset, Jardin des Tuileries
Fete rides, Jardin des Tuileries
Summer fete, Jardin des Tuileries
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My ‘Paris photography portfolio’ page is coming soon!
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Books
I have read some really incredible mind-expanding books over the past year. The stand-outs would have to be:
“The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom” Don Miguel Ruiz
Highly, highly recommended for anyone who wishes to gain an insight into the way we are conditioned to think, and how to break free of the drama this causes in our lives.
Empowering and inspiring!
Core concepts are:
1. Be impeccable with your word – Your word is the power that you have to create. So speak with integrity, and say only what you mean. Don’t use the word against yourself (judgement or blame), or engage in gossip. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.
2. Don’t take anything personally – Nothing others do is because of you. What others say and do is a projection of their own reality and agreements, their own ‘dream’. When you are immune to the opinions and actions of others, you will free yourself, and won’t be the victim of unnecessary suffering.
3. Don’t make assumptions – Ask questions to gain information and clarity on situations, and express what you truly want. Communicate with others openly and clearly to avoid misunderstandings. We only see what we want to see, and hear what we want to hear. We also make the assumption that everyone sees life the way we do. If you stop making assumptions, your relationships with others will be transformed.
4. Always do your best – The first three agreements will only work if you do your best. This enables you to accept yourself. But you have to be self-aware, and learn from your mistakes. Know that ‘your best’ is going to change from moment to moment, and day to day. Surrender and let go of the past. Do the best you can at any given moment, keep practising, and create new habits and rituals that serve you.
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“The Strangest Secret”
Earl Nightingale (book and audio recording).
Although recorded in the 1950’s, it still rings true today.
The strangest secret is cited as:
“We become what we think about”.
He states the “trouble today” is conformity. People acting like everyone else without knowing why, and without knowing where they’re going. A survey of “working men” found 19 out of 20 stated that the reason they go to work in the morning is “because everyone else is doing it”!
He defines success as “the progressive realisation of a worthy ideal [goal].” And that people with goals succeed because they know where they’re going.
“Plant your goal in your mind. It’s the most important decision you’ll ever make in your entire life.”
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“Believe and succeed.”
I’d also like to add that thoughts are things! And the key element is belief – knowing and feeling that you can achieve your goal.
If you want to know what you have been thinking about, feeling, and believing in the past, then look at your life as it is now.
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Music
Two songs that have been my “themes” for the last year or so:
“It’s my life” Bon Jovi
It’s my life, it’s now or never
I ain’t gonna live forever
I just want to live while I’m alive
(It’s my life)
My heart is like an open highway
Like Frankie said I did it my way
I just wanna live while I’m alive
“Man in the Mirror” Michael Jackson
I’m starting with the man in the mirror
I’m asking him to change his ways
And no message could have been any clearer
If you wanna make the world a better place
Take a look at yourself and then make a change
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Feel free to share any book recommendations or inspiring quotes in your comments. I’d love to receive them 🙂
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